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How It All Started
Three weeks after Elizabeth Mallory and her husband John started the
preliminary paperwork to adopt two children from Cambodia, the
United States government shut down adoptions in Cambodia amid
allegations of baby buying and corruption. The Department of
Immigration and Naturalization Services (INS) issued an
across-the-board moratorium on Cambodian adoptions until they could
fully investigate these serious charges. After a few months of being
in limbo, not knowing when or if they would ever be able to adopt
from Cambodia, the INS compromised and issued a special
humanitarian initiative. This initiative would investigate each
child that had already been referred to adoptive parents. If the
children proved to be legitimate orphans, they would be granted the
visas they needed to come to the U.S. Since Elizabeth and John had not been
referred their children yet, they were told they would not be included in
the humanitarian initiative and would not be able to adopt from
Cambodia.
Seeing The Need For The First Time
Undeterred, Elizabeth decided to go to Cambodia anyway and find the
children she knew in her heart were meant to be a part of their
family. If she did find them, there was no guarantee that she would
ever be able to adopt them. This would be her first time traveling
outside the United States. Her husband John stayed behind to care
for their 4 year old daughter.
When other prospective adoptive parents heard Elizabeth would be
traveling, many asked if she could check in on their referred
children who had been waiting in orphanages for months while the INS
investigations continued. Families from all over the country asked
if she could bring gifts to the children, take photos and assess
their health. Elizabeth happily obliged.
She traveled to 13 orphanages on that first trip and the conditions
shocked her. Many of the children were malnourished, sick,
uneducated, under stimulated and in much need of individualized
care. When she visited the orphanages, she delivered gifts and doled
out hugs and kisses to hundreds of children – those who had parents
waiting for them, as well as those who did not. Elizabeth also met
the boy she knew was to be her son, but she was unable to
bring him home because of the moratorium.
After she returned home to Michigan, she couldn’t think of anything
else but going back to Cambodia, not only to her little boy, but to see
all the orphaned children. These children had so little; her typical
American wants and needs seemed incredibly insignificant. Elizabeth
was being pulled back to Cambodia, a country that she wouldn't have
been able to locate on a map just one year earlier. Her whirlwind
trip gave her a lesson in the country, its people, its history of
genocide and the poverty, as well as the hunger and sickness suffered by so many of
its children. Current figures estimate that there are anywhere from
60,000 to 200,000 orphans in Cambodia and that 64,000 children under
the age of five die every year; mostly from dehydration due to
untreated fever and/or diarrhea.
The urge to return to Cambodia was so great that she made a second
trip just three months later.
Elizabeth's second trip brought her to 23 orphanages, again laden
with toys, clothes and medicine from waiting parents. She visited
the little boy and she found the three year old little girl that was
to be her daughter. It was also during this trip
that she heard the news the Mallory family had hoped for - their
case had been reconsidered and since they had
identified the children they wished to adopt, the INS had
decided to include the Mallorys in the humanitarian initiative. In due time,
the little boy and girl would be coming home.
Establishing NCLO
It
took an additional 13 months and three more trips to Cambodia before
their children were granted visas to join the Mallory family in
Michigan. During this time Elizabeth looked to volunteer with other
organizations that were doing what she had done – directly helping
the children in orphanages throughout the country. Discouraged by
not being able to find an organization that promoted what she hoped
to accomplish, Elizabeth decided to officially start a 501c3
charitable organization, No Child Left Out (NCLO). NCLO's mission
would be to help less fortunate children around the world with a
special focus on health, education and love.
NCLO Today
Today NCLO’s work spans across Cambodia and is expanding around the
globe. Through donations and backed by a team of volunteers, NCLO
has been able to:
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Provide rice and other food
to orphanages each month
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Start child sponsorship
programs to oversee the health and education of individual
children
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Provide educational supplies
including everything from school uniforms to bicycles for transportation
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Establish various educational
programs including E-Pal, sewing classes, photography clinics,
English, and more
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Establish the NCLO Children's
Home, a unique facility that serves as a home to orphaned
children but unlike orphanages, the children live in close-knit
family units
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Establish the NCLO
Educational Center that provides a quality multicultural
education to children as well as seminars and training to
improve the care of children in traditional orphanages
· The
Future
NCLO’s aim is to attack the problems at the root so that the
children can flourish. As NCLO continues to grow, its aim is to aide
not just orphans, but any less fortunate children in developing
countries throughout the world. NCLO plans to open more NCLO
Centers which will provide homes for orphaned children while
reaching into the community to strengthen families and villages in
order to prevent children from becoming orphans in the first place.
Please join us in our mission!
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